You can't own both properties at once and still call it an exchange — so in a reverse exchange, an entity affiliated with your intermediary (an "exchange accommodation titleholder," or EAT) takes temporary title to one of them, usually the new purchase, and "parks" it. You then sell your old property and complete the swap. The IRS blessed this structure with a safe harbor (Rev. Proc. 2000-37) as long as the parking lasts no more than 180 days.
The same deadlines, mirrored
From the day the EAT takes title to the parked property, you have 45 days to identify which property you'll sell and 180 days to complete that sale and unwind the parking. Same clock, opposite direction — and just as unforgiving. If your old property doesn't sell within 180 days, the safe harbor lapses and you simply own two properties with no deferral.
The two practical hurdles
Cost: reverse exchanges typically run several thousand dollars in accommodator fees — often $3,500–$7,500+ — because an entity must be formed, insured, and hold title. Financing: you must fund the new purchase without your sale proceeds, and because the EAT is on title, many lenders balk. Cash buyers and those with strong credit lines have a much easier time.